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Mood Stabilizers and Teens: Where to Find Support

Mood Stabilizers and Teens: Where to Find Support

Joel Thomas, Kate Motaung2026-02-20T10:43:07+00:00February 20th, 2026|Bipolar Disorder, Christian Counseling For Teens, Featured, Individual Counseling|

Bipolar disorder in teens can be challenging to accurately diagnose. This is because most of the bipolar symptoms appear to be normal teen behavior patterns. These symptoms can also be found in other mental health conditions such as ADHD, anxiety, and depression. There are times when medications such as mood stabilizers can be an option for treatment for your teen. It is understandable that there may be concerns about medications for your teen. It is recommended that you take time to understand the medication options, and which one will work best for your teen. Mood stabilizers are used to treat sudden episodes of manic behavior. By balancing the brain chemicals, mood stabilizers help control emotions and mood swings. What Are Mood Stabilizers? Mood stabilizers are a class of medications that are used to treat bipolar disorder. As the name suggests, they stabilize moods to keep the balance between highs and lows. There are cases where they can also reduce the effects of depression. These medications target the neurotransmitters in the brain to decrease abnormal activity in the brain. There are various types of mood stabilizers, but only a few are approved for use in treating teens with bipolar disorder. Lithium For several years, lithium has been the top choice for treating bipolar disorder in teens. This medication has been used since the 1950s and is derived from a naturally occurring lithium salt. It was originally used in the salt form and had a calming effect when used during a manic episode. The side effects of lithium include: Headache Weight gain Weakness Fatigue Vertigo Excessive thirst Memory problems Drowsiness Concentration problems Nausea Increased urination Antidepressants Antidepressants are also used to treat bipolar in teens. These medications are referred to as SNRIs and SSRIs. SNRIs (serotonin and noradrenaline reuptake inhibitors) raise levels [...]

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Top 10 Triggers for Teenage Chemical Dependency

Top 10 Triggers for Teenage Chemical Dependency

Grace Mavindidze2026-02-19T05:51:38+00:00February 19th, 2026|Chemical Dependency, Christian Counseling For Teens, Featured, Individual Counseling|

As parents, we want to protect our teens from harm so they can have a bright future ahead. One of the biggest challenges that is rapidly getting out of control is chemical dependency among teenagers. It’s hard enough to be a teenager, even without adding drug or alcohol use into the mix; yet more and more youth are resorting to these dangerous behaviors as an escape from the pressure of today’s reality. What are those pressures? While some may argue that these problems stem from personal choices, professionals believe otherwise. Chemical dependency is also not just a physical dependence on substances. It is also a psychological one, especially for teenagers who are still discovering their identity and navigating life’s stresses. With so many different influences, parents and caregivers alike need to understand the biggest risks for teenagers. Then we can equip younger generations with effective coping mechanisms rather than letting them spiral down destructive paths. According to recent studies, substance dependence in teenagers has been steadily rising in this decade more than in any other decade in history. It’s time we all got together as educators, caregivers, and families alike to address the root causes proactively and stop this scourge. The data most experts have accumulated through scientific studies unlock many of the root causes of teen addiction. Triggers for Teen Chemical Dependence from Highest to Lowest The leading cause of chemical dependency in teens, according to a recent study by SAMHSA, the country’s Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, is peer pressure. It accounts for an average of thirty percent of chemical dependency triggers among adolescents. A close second risk factor has been seen in teenagers who reported having a close family member with substance abuse issues. The reports say these kids are three times more likely to [...]

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How DBT Groups Help Kids Break Free from Internet Addiction

Grace Mavindidze2025-10-30T04:32:43+00:00October 29th, 2025|Christian Counseling for Children, Christian Counseling For Teens, Family Counseling, Featured, Group Counseling|

It’s becoming harder and harder to get kids to step away from their screens, and they are everywhere you look. From the moment your child wakes up, they’re reaching for their phone or tablet, scrolling non-stop through videos, games, or social media. This is something many younger people now call doomscrolling. In a lot of homes, even mealtimes have turned into moments of silence with everyone focused on their screens. Bedtime gets pushed back too because kids stay up scrolling late into the night. It’s natural to worry about the effects all this screen time is having on them. As a parent, maybe you’ve tried setting rules, but it just leads to arguments. Perhaps you’ve suggested other activities, but they don’t seem interested. It’s frustrating, and you just want your child to be happy and engaged with the world around them. That’s where DBT groups can help. These groups give kids tips they need to build better habits and help them break free from the scrolling cycle that eventually leads to internet addiction. For parents, such groups are a place where you can find hope and a way to help your child find a better balance in the digital world. Why Is It Called Doomscrolling? Doomscrolling isn’t just being online; this name comes from how a person gets caught up in the endless scroll, consuming content that’s often negative or anxiety-provoking. Whether they’re reading updates, watching TikTok videos, or jumping between apps, this kind of screen behavior can easily and quickly become an unhealthy habit. Kids struggle to put their devices down, even when they know it’s time to stop. It may seem harmless, but excessive screen time can seriously impact kids. Their brains are still developing, and they’re especially vulnerable to the addictive nature of apps and online [...]

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Dealing with Anxiety as a Teenager: How to Help Your Teen

Dealing with Anxiety as a Teenager: How to Help Your Teen

Kate Motaung2025-06-19T11:28:59+00:00June 19th, 2025|Anxiety, Christian Counseling For Teens, Featured, Individual Counseling|

We all deal with anxiety in one form or another. Some people get anxious around animals or certain insects, while others respond with anxiety to wide-open or populated spaces. Public speaking is a source of anxiety for many, while for others it’s heights or talking with strangers. Anxiety, whether mild or in its more severe forms, seems to be a part of our lives. One of the challenges that teens face is dealing with anxiety. There are things specific to that phase of life that can induce anxiety. It’s essential that teens get the support they need to handle anxiety in their lives, particularly if the anxiety is severe and persistent enough to disrupt their day-to-day activities. Anxiety and Teenagers: Some Causes of Anxiety Anxiety is an emotional and physiological response to something stressful and perceived as a threat. Each individual will have particular things that feel threatening to them. That’s one reason it isn’t always helpful to tell someone that they shouldn’t be anxious about a given situation. It’s not as though one is making a conscious choice to feel threatened, and it’s not an easy thing to turn that fear off. Each teen is unique, and what makes them anxious won’t necessarily look the same as for other people. In the same way, their anxiety may stem from a combination of factors, and understanding the underlying reasons for their anxiety can better equip you to walk alongside a teen to guide them through anxiety. Some of the common reasons why a teen may feel anxious include social and relationship concerns. Between having difficulties forming or maintaining peer relationships, navigating social hierarchies, the perils and vulnerabilities of dating, and handling their social media presence, many things can make a teen anxious. Additionally, tension or conflict in the family [...]

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Advice for Teens and Parents: How to Make the Most of Your Counseling Experience

Advice for Teens and Parents: How to Make the Most of Your Counseling Experience

Kate Motaung2025-06-04T05:27:57+00:00June 4th, 2025|Christian Counseling For Teens, Featured, Individual Counseling|

When it comes to counseling, I have often found that families are not sure of what to expect. I’ve heard from teens, “Are you going to tell my parents what we talk about?” “What do we talk about?” “Is it just going to be the two of us meeting?” On the other hand, what I’ve heard from parents is, “Will I need to be at every session?” “Are you going to let me know what you discuss with them?” “How often will we have sessions?” These are all understandable concerns, and I see where both teens and their parents are coming from. For those new to counseling, it can feel confusing, intimidating, and even nerve-wracking, especially for teens. Teens might worry they’re in trouble or feel like they’ve done something wrong, while parents may struggle with feelings of guilt or uncertainty about how to support their child. That’s why I believe it’s important to set clear expectations from the start, so both teens and parents can make the most of their counseling journey. The First Session The first session, often called an intake appointment, is the initial meeting between the parent, teen, and counselor. Each counselor may handle this session a bit differently, but here’s what you can generally expect from how I conduct mine. Both parents are welcome to attend with their teen, though only one parent or legal guardian is required to be present. At the start of the session, I’ll go over the informed consent form, which outlines important details such as my qualifications, scheduling and cancellation policies, payment information, and confidentiality. During the first session, I always discuss the importance of confidentiality in the counseling space. Confidentiality is the ethical and legal duty of a counselor to protect a client’s private information and not share [...]

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Taking Active Steps Toward Bullying Prevention

Taking Active Steps Toward Bullying Prevention

Kate Motaung2025-04-25T05:20:44+00:00April 4th, 2025|Christian Counseling for Children, Christian Counseling For Teens, Featured, Individual Counseling, Relationship Issues|

Whether in person or online, our society has become increasingly intertwined. Even though we now have more ways to connect with people through social media, texts, calls, or video chats, these same means of connection can also cause us to feel distant from one another. One area where this is keenly seen is with regard to bullying. Bullying is one such way in which people ignore the basic needs, dignity, and humanity of others. Bullying affects both adults and children, leading to feelings of isolation, anxiety, low self-esteem, and even depression. Richardson Christian Counseling supports individuals who are struggling with the emotional effects of bullying, offering compassionate care grounded in faith and healing. When it comes to children, bullying most often happens at school, but it also can take place online as well. Those who are more at risk of being bullied are: People who are considered weak or unable to defend themselves Those who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, questioning, intersex, and two-spirit People who are perceived as being different based on their weight, what they wear, or their social status Those who have a physical, mental, or intellectual disability Bullying Prevention by Understanding Bullying To develop effective strategies to prevent bullying, we must understand the nature of bullying. According to the National Association of School Psychologists (NASP), bullying is characterized by the following: Intentional It is unwanted, aggressive behavior that is intended to cause emotional or physical harm. Repeated Unwanted behavior is repeated multiple times or has the likelihood of being repeated many times. Power imbalance Bullying involves an imbalance of power between the target and perpetrator(s) based on a person’s weight, real or perceived race, color, national origin, religion or religious practices, disability ethnic group, sexual orientation, gender, physical appearance, sex, or other distinguishing characteristics. [...]

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The Impacts of Birth Order

The Impacts of Birth Order

Kate Motaung2025-04-25T05:26:21+00:00March 25th, 2025|Christian Counseling for Children, Christian Counseling For Teens, Family Counseling, Featured, Individual Counseling|

In the 1920s, Alfred Adler, a physician and psychotherapist, developed a theory on personality. His theory emphasized the influence a community (family, friendships, and society at large) has on an individual. Through Adler’s research and interviews, he noticed many commonalities in personality traits related to the birth order of children. In particular, he noticed that the order in which a child is born in relation to their siblings can impact one’s personality traits and lifestyle. This theory, known as Birth Order Theory, categorizes personality traits based on a child’s position in the family. It identifies three main categories: firstborn, middleborn, and lastborn. Richardson Christian Counseling recognizes the influence of birth order and offers support in understanding how it may shape individual experiences and relationships. It is important to remember that while some aspects of Adler’s theory might apply to certain individuals, it does not necessarily hold true for everyone. The Firstborn Child First-time parents often have strong opinions on how a child should be raised. Putting those opinions into practice while raising their first child may involve significant trial and error. These parents were learning as they were raising a child. Personality Traits of the Firstborn Child The firstborn often experiences the parents growing up with them. They are the children who give their parents experience in child-rearing. This can lead to a strict and cautious upbringing. Being raised under that dynamic, they often become success-oriented. The traits of firstborn children may include being: Mature Responsible Organized Leaders High achieving Controlling Cautious Reliable Perfectionist The firstborn child experienced having the parents to themselves and getting all the attention. This also meant that the firstborn was more than likely subjected to stricter rules. Being the oldest child sometimes means a greater expectation to set a good example for the younger [...]

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Knowing the Difference Between a Big Appetite and Binge Eating in Teens

Knowing the Difference Between a Big Appetite and Binge Eating in Teens

Kate Motaung2025-02-26T05:46:53+00:00February 26th, 2025|Christian Counseling For Teens, Eating Disorders, Featured, Individual Counseling|

Jackson has been feeling lost since he recently realized his teenage son Jack Junior’s famous appetite may have evolved into a binge eating disorder. As a single dad, born and raised on a ranch in Texas, surrounded mostly by cowboys who don’t talk much about emotion, Jackson is not quite sure how to even broach this topic with his son. All sorts of questions keep floating around in his head. “How did I not notice that my kid might have an eating disorder sooner?”. “How can I know for sure if my son is binge eating?”. “How and why did this develop into a disorder?”. “How much of a problem is this condition?”. With this article, we hope to answer most of Jackson’s questions and help any other parent who might find themselves in the same boat with their child. How did I not notice that my child might have an eating disorder sooner? The boy, Jack Jr., has always had a huge appetite and loves his steaks, drumsticks, potatoes, and gravy. You see, his mother, who recently passed away of cancer, was the ranch’s resident cook, so he has grown up surrounded by her rich cooking, literally eating it all up. What Jackson doesn’t know is that in recent months, Junior has endured relentless teasing at school for the way he looks with hurtful body-shaming nicknames that are thrown at him every day. Slowly he’s been finding ways to cope with the pain by seeking solace in food. It’s become his routine that when life throws too much at him, he just retreats to his room, locks the door, and starts binge eating whatever snacks he could find in the pantry or leftovers stashed in the fridge. Jack Junior can eat several bags of chips, cookies, a full chicken, [...]

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Teens, Social Media, and Body Image

Teens, Social Media, and Body Image

Kate Motaung2025-11-01T12:43:52+00:00February 3rd, 2025|Christian Counseling For Teens, Featured, Individual Counseling|

Last night, I opened Instagram and began scrolling. I had recently searched for new recipes and workouts, so my feed was filled with these types of videos. However, amid the dog and baking recipe videos, I started seeing videos about calorie counts, daily gym routines to make my waist smaller, and ways to lose weight. I hadn’t searched for that content, but it was now automatically showing up in my feed. I realized I probably wasn’t the only one who was seeing these types of videos centered on body image. I couldn’t help but wonder how exposure to this content might impact a person’s self-esteem and body image, especially for a teenager. What is body image? Body image refers to the beliefs and perceptions we have about our own bodies – how we view our appearance, like our size, shape, height, and weight. A positive body image involves feeling confident in your appearance and accepting the natural changes your body goes through as you age (e.g., menopause, fluctuating weight). Negative body image is the belief that there is something wrong with your appearance. The National Eating Disorders Association defines negative body image as “a distorted perception of one’s shape and physical appearance. Negative body image (or body dissatisfaction) involves feelings of shame, anxiety, and self-consciousness.” Those who struggle with negative body image often find themselves frequently doing body checking (monitoring their physical appearance via scales, mirrors, or other methods), constantly comparing their appearance to others, or going to extreme lengths to change their appearance. Those who experience high levels of body dissatisfaction are more likely to suffer from feelings of depression, isolation, low self-esteem, and developing eating disorders. Negative Body Image and Social Media For individuals who struggle with their body image, social media can make these negative beliefs [...]

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Teenage Depression is Real: 3 Subtle Signs to Watch for in Your Teen

Teenage Depression is Real: 3 Subtle Signs to Watch for in Your Teen

Kate Motaung2025-01-29T10:00:45+00:00January 29th, 2025|Christian Counseling For Teens, Depression, Featured, Individual Counseling|

As the number of instances of teenage- depression continues to grow in the United States, the importance of addressing this issue has become increasingly clear. In a recent study conducted by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), researchers found that 17% of teens (ages 12-17) experienced symptoms of depression. The Importance of Recognizing Teenage Depression Supporting teens on their mental health journey has emerged as a key focus for parents, educators, and society, prompting us to explore the most effective ways to help and empower the next generation. For parents, a crucial first step is recognizing the key signs of teenage depression. Depression is more than just feeling sad. It is a serious mental health condition that affects your teen’s mood, behavior, and ability to function at school, at home, or with their friends. It can be difficult to tell if your teen is depressed because many depression symptoms are also common adolescent behaviors, like appetite changes or lack of energy. However, with depression, these symptoms are usually more severe, and they last for a longer period (weeks or months at a time). How to Spot Teenage Depression For a teen struggling with depression, they might feel sad for weeks or even months at a time. Their mood does not seem to improve, or they do not “brighten up” when good things happen. To them, it might be hard for them to remember a time when they weren’t sad. They might have trouble concentrating in class, may not be interested in their hobbies, have difficulty sleeping, or sleep too much. Parents need to notice if their teen is acting differently. Did your teen previously hang out with their friends, but now they spend all their free time in their room alone? Or does your teen who was [...]

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